Beach kids

Beach kids
Was born in 1926. Rushan, Shandong people. Author of novels of the two geese in the spring snow.
How happy two locks, to Grandma‘s House. He hadn’t come over to Grandma’s House in five years.


Grandma held it on the Yellow Sea. Village north is the port Canal and tides is a water, hope to also do not look to the side; at low tide, the sea receded, showing a yellow beach. Village South is a Sandy Ridge, Sha Ling is covered with a sandy Liao, standing on the Sandy Ridge saw the sea. Two locks like the sea! Blue, no edge, no Internet, and sparkled. What‘s the sea? Fish, crabs, shrimp, and fish, the teacher said there is such a large fish in the sea, larger than a House. But two locks do not see the big fish could not see even small fish. Two lock and strange: the fish ran to where is it?


My grandmother’s aunt and uncle in the home, there are big Tigers and little flowers sister. Two locks every day playing with Tiger on the beach, sand on the beach is fine and soft, both lying on the beach, open belly shirt Sun, Sun belly murmur chatterring. Tiger one year older than the two locks, but no second lock tall and readgrade, two locks is not admire him. He is also the captain, in the summer before joining the young pioneers, their squad is stronger than his ability. But Tiger did know how many b lock does not understand things, for example, large Tiger knows when tide, tide of what fish know what kind of crab are willing to climb out of the weather;also, in light of light suddenly turned up a clam on the beach; and will float. Two lock slowly admitted: there are plenty of things about the Sea Tiger know much. But why does he always say someone else is wrong with it! There are two locks is pleasedto tell Grandma: Grandma, today I saw the ship‘s sails, white as snow, so much, standing in the sea and it won’t move. Dahu plug in his mouth: who said not tomove, well, see it is! Two locks in the sea picked up some nice white things like boats, happy to show it to Tiger. Who knows the Tigers laughed: it is the fish Board, wehad to throw out, and you are going to move. Flowers immediately ran to tell her grandmother: Grandma, er lock picking up some fish to the Board. It’s a little tongue, Abel would love!


Two locks like tide all the time sitting on the beach, watching the tide around the horizon. Tide suffused with white foam blowing toward him, and he jumped back andwave into his heel back, bubble splash his face, chill. Waves and then came, he jumped back again. Under the tides to Sandy Ridge. He stood on the Sandy Ridge, the tide no longer came with him and slowly calmed down. Two locks is not happy, he was hoping to bring sea to Sandy Ridge.
Two locks most pleased and Tiger fish. Two men secretly taken out of the uncle‘s net, ran to the village in the North channel in Hong Kong. Whistling to the shore the tide ran. Hu pointed to the water and lowered his voice and shout: quick! Two locks,a school of fish! But two locked but there is not even a fish to see. When the tiger in his eyes into the adult, what Tiger said what he heard. Really, haven’t pulled the net to shore, jumping fish jumping in Ali. Two locks were like and worry, voice shouted himself hoarse. A network pulled a half buckets got a fish. Two locks looking at all these fish, like in a dream.


The tide, two locks and big tiger into the local drainage digging clams at the beach.Many beautiful patterns on the clam shell, very thick, as big as a fist. Clam deep beneath the sand, tide swept away the sand smooth, locks could not find the second, but the Tigers used a small hoe suddenly turned up a. Big tiger told two locks, whereclam has a small eye, because clams to leave a hole and catch my breath. Two lock at the beach is filled with small eyes, dig a few eyes, just dug up a few fingers big little crabs. He was disappointed, Tiger said to him, this clam digging in the sand, to diginto the local drainage North of the beach, where the clams very much.


How happy the second lock, when he wanted to go home, can bring a big box of clams to go back. When school starts, on his desk, put on five, no, ten or more, look to students, one pencil, one ink, a red color, green color … … Students have gatheredto his table, he gave each of them a no, normal and he hit it, he offered, no he didn’t give.


Two locks was secretly looking forward to the big tiger brought him North to Hong Kong on Canal, but the Tigers have no intention of going. Two locks have self-respect and he wouldn’t wanted to ask others, but more than anything in a hurry.

My children read

My children read
I realize the importance of spending time with children beginning in 2010, due to busy with their own work for a child until only the external form of care, and there isvery little inner spiritual communication, which I missed a lot of the critical period ofeducation. But I Yu May 2010 participate in has family happiness workshop Hou, realized that family on children of life up with far-reaching of effect, is not ignored of, I again adjustment himself of mentality and work arrangements, efforts learning good of family concept, put learn to of things application to actual life in the practice, this let I harvest has many family of wisdom, face problem also can came up with better of method for properly processing. Family education is a systematic project, family atmosphere, its personnel and ways of doing things will affect the child, if we educate our children and only talk about kids that is local, is not perfect. If we really want to let the children fully good development, family members their own behavior andattitude is very important, especially as MOM and dad, to keep pace with the keeppace with the children, do the child‘s guardian and leader.
Growing with children in many ways, reading with children is one of them, then I amwith children reading way to talk about my experience of growing up with this:
Read one, and may promote feelings between parents, to communicate the contents of the book are emotional exchange with each other, it should at least do something in the read, called read in addition to reading a book together, which also implies the need for the presence of resonance, resonance is generated in the Exchange.If they just read, children are only interested in their understanding, without any communication with each other, then the children and the parents ‘ emotions are unable to blend together, but not increasing emotional. Assuming no communication, your life, your world is the lack of love and joy. Most of today‘s children lack of enthusiasm and motivation, is related to this from the lack of communication with them,does not have a source of love can have a sustained
Second, the read has the opportunity to exchange between parents and children,and in Exchange, you can keep abreast of children‘s inner thoughts or way of thinking, so as to achieve effective guide. I remember one time my son and I read a shortstory, probably meant some students running for student body President, which one of the students broke through the previous campaign speeches, increased timelyhumor, finally leading number of votes was elected President of the Student Council. Son listens to the story said, MOM, if the school principal or teacher required in accordance with their requirements, and that students can elect to succeed?The news of her son‘s question, I felt that he was bound by certain provisions of thinking, I smiled and said to his son: a lot of times people will focus on results and the forgetting process, in fact, are the factors that determine the outcome, and processes can be diverse, as long as the process to others is happy, positive, sunshine, confidence and love, he will succeed in the end! My son nodded thoughtfully. Later when he ran for the school Brigade speeches I’ve seen in a slightly different place, especially on the momentum increased quite a bit of confidence. Training of primary school children are creative, good time, to create opportunities for children to experience as much as possible, only experience life to mature. Good children behave, if this goes on to lose creativity and imagination; naughty boy prone principle bottom line, know no borders. This need to carefully observe and guide parents in ordinary life, borrow a book or a story combining the traits of children inspired and guided, can either keep the child‘s face to maintain his dignity, or you can let him know how to go in the right direction.
Three, and total read of process is inspired children wisdom, and upgrade its in-depth thinking capacity of process, total read Shi seems children some not ready for of language expression and is parents education guide children of best opportunities, I and son with finished Catholic of power Hou, son on which of a words for has added, book in the of said is: Dang a only feet stepped on to has violet of petals Shang, we of soles is left has spent of fragrance, this is petals on we of Catholic. Son saidMOM, some flowers, you step on it, it‘s the smell sticks to your feet. “Was just a sentence Centerless of is words, this world was on has incense of spent and smelly of spent, and I was this among also can has another a of meaning to inspired children of life wisdom, I first on son words to he ask spent of type, in praised he of while and with is surprise of tone with son said:” mother found you this sentence words added have too good has, you inadvertently said has and people along in the of a phenomenon. Son blinked his eyes and looked at me, it was clear that he wanted to hear what this is? I said, some people are like flowers, they offend him, and some were Catholic, like violet scent left to others, others will have a heart of joy to him, to be close to him. And some take just revenge, like flowers to smell other people, other people hate on him, so as to avoid him, this phenomenon does exist. Put yourself in theirposition absolute good and evil cannot be said, nor can absolute who is right and who is wrong, if you do not know what to do with the son? My son smiled and said:of course I want to smell for others. Tolerance of others, be kind to yourself is a good way to a happy life, I hope that my son‘s life and your happiness, so I‘ll bit by bitto sow the seeds of happiness.
Episodes like this have a lot of life, today I share and ways to enumerate these points, hoping to bring you a heart of joy and also comes with a piece of advice to parents, from everyday lifetime listening to your child talk, children read the book are want someone to listen to him, parents listening can improve your child‘s interest in reading.

“Mother would like to see you do it yourself Oh!”

When children lack daily living
Secret children education (China Women’s News) survey reported that our children living skills and ability is not optimistic, in primary and secondary schools, 26% of parents worry about every day wear more children, 30 percent of children are not even simple meals do while in kindergarten. 60% of children daily living skills and ability is very low, it does not tie his shoe. Do not wear clothes. Some even have to eat the adults feed. Due to lack of the necessary practical skills training. Children are prone to a condition known as “feel schizophrenia” of the disease, such as poor child self-control, and some are too shy, and some particularly disruptive. It is understood that. In some big cities, there are nearly thirty percent of children have varying degrees of feeling integrated imbalance.
case analysis
The main difference between children and parents ability parenting the way. Many parents like taking on everything, everything yourself: Some parents also underestimate the child’s autonomy, which also do not think that children can not do: There’s too much of a child’s parents to learn, even learning that the child as long as the good, Other things do not have to be in accordance with, and so on.
As the saying goes:. “Grossly hundred times better to hand to do it again,” Let the children more hands is an important way to promote a child’s intellectual development, through the hands of activities that can promote the development of the various regions of the brain. We often say “ingenuity.” In fact, the manual dexterity to mind. Children’s strong hands can also make the child more confident, the courage to explore. Exercise the child’s ability in the process, a sense of responsibility: love, perseverance can get culture.
Understandably, when children lack daily living, their parents should be promptly into line culture. In small children, you can let him learn to organize their own toys, yourself hands, wash, strip and other small things. The child is bigger, you can let him clean the house, wash small items such as handkerchiefs, to help mom and dad to pick up some lighter objects. Louder, may be responsible for watering flowers, washing dishes, mopping the floor, sorting clothes and so on. This will not only be able to exercise the child’s self-care ability, but also to cultivate children a strong sense of ownership. Parents should give children timely appropriate incentives, when children do not do well when eagerly for him to do right away, not easily blame him against the child’s self-confidence, can give appropriate guidance. Some children may be very interested in the beginning of the housework, over time, a bit bored. At this time, parents must adhere to, should always tell the children: “!! Mom would like to see you do it yourself, oh come, try” to develop the child’s own housework good habit to cultivate children’s perseverance, do not give up halfway.
In addition, children should be appropriate by the point of frustration. In Japan there is such a child’s education saying: “In addition to sun and air are the gift of nature, all the other must be obtained through their own labor.” So most of the children in Japan should participate in work-study work during the holidays: a small number of Some children will participate in whatever labor, high school students will go to some welfare agencies to help, such as caring for the elderly, and some students have to teach, to a restaurant washing dishes, or engage in promotions. Japanese feel, pair the children, the two most important thing is education and self-reliance. In fact, one more important thing is to have the ability to think independently and a strong personality, which is more important than to live independently.